Ok a few things, 1. It bothered me that the author would mention in the book that a women should “dumb down to appease a man.” Since smart women are intimidating. First off, as a college educated female with a career. I am not dumbing down... +
Ok a few things,
1. It bothered me that the author would mention in the book that a women should “dumb down to appease a man.” Since smart women are intimidating.
First off, as a college educated female with a career. I am not dumbing down for no one...not even to get a man. I need someone that can intellectually challenge me and the men I have dated long-term love an educated women. Only ones that would probably be turned off by it are men that are not college educated, which I am fine with since I am not interested in them. Also, it is very insulting that she would even suggest that women act dumb to make a man feel more superior this is not the 1950s!!!
2. There are valid points in this book that I have incorporated and it does work. Like how to get a man to do things in the house and it’s NOT nagging! But, I feel like a lot of the points she is making is common sense, since a lot of people do not like naggers!
3. I agree that women shouldn’t act like DOORMATS but women shouldn’t act like bitter “bitches” either. There should be a balance and because I speak up for myself or have healthy boundaries shouldn’t label me as a bitch. (I know the book is called “Why Men Love Bitches” )
4. The text is so easy to read a teenager would have no problem reading it and I do not understand the hype this book has gotten when there are other well written books that focuses on human relationships written by specialists.
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