This book was great for the first 3ish chapters, then I could not bring myself to read the rest. The first bit of the book provided good insight into some of the things that males do to devalue their special lady, and what females do to upset their boo. Good analogies and examples were provided, but then the book just got redundant.

It is a simple read... most of it common sense - the entire book gives 101 ways of essentially saying

1. women - learn how to give your man some space
2. women - don't try to change a man and appreciate him for who he is... men NEED to feel appreciated
3. women - the more you nag/smother, the more he will pull away, and therein lies a perpetuating cycle of you being mad at him all the time... so try and do it less.

1. men - women are NOT always looking for a solution to the things they discuss, they just want you to listed
2. men - women are affectionate beings who show concern by helping... love them for that
3. men - open lines of communication with your lady because they're 'talkative beings'... if you need a bit of space after coming home from work - tell her baby, give me a sec (15 mins to unwind) then I'm all yours.

... that's the message of the book that the author repeated 101 different ways... so now, you don't need to buy it.